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ruizant81
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Posted:10/21/2008 5:31 PM |
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I’ve been separated from my wife since 8/17/2008. We had a very volatile relationship and we were both very up and down. Looking back, we probably were not ready to get married when we did. Well, the fact remains that we did get married. I spoke to her last on 9/11 and pleaded with her to try and work things out. I still love her very much and I think our promise to God should be taken a little more serious. Oh, we recently got married in 12/07, so it’s very recent. I haven’t spoken to her since 9/11 and I’m awaiting the divorce decree to arrive in the mail. The day after I spoke to her, 9/12, I desperately prayed to God. I told God that I left everything in his hands. I told him that if he wanted her for me, to bring her back but if not, keep her away. It’s now over a month later and I wonder if I’ve done enough to get her back. And at the same time I want to keep my trust in God. I feel like I would be betraying my trust in God if I try anything, but my heart is telling me to don’t give up. Please pray for me to do the right thing and do what God wants me to do. Thanks
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ruizant81
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Posted:10/24/2008 7:21 PM |
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Thanks for everyone and their prayers. I received the divorce decree yesterday and it was tough dealing with that throughout the evening. God led me to read scripture later that evening and he told me why everything happend the way it did. Although I know it's going to take some time before I'm completely healed but, God had put me at ease about the divorce. 
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ruizant81
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Posted:10/24/2008 7:23 PM |
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Thanks for everyone for your prayers. God spoke to me last night while reading scripture. It's very rare that I feel I can feel God leading my mind but it's such an amazing feeling when that happens. God has led me to let everything be and to move on and focus on him. It's going to take some time until I'm completely healed, but I am finally at ease about the divorce.
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